Sensitivity to newcomers
There is no reserved seating the Sanctuary - it's all first come first serve. When newcomers join us on Sunday they may sit in a pew that 'historically' has been the seat of a long time member. We should consider ourselves as hosts and hostesses on Sunday morning as people come to our church. While that seat may have been your preferred location, graciously concede it to another on Sunday. If you really like that location, come a little earlier. It is the kiss of death for the continued presence of a newcomer if we ask them to move because they are sitting in our seat. Remember the seats ultimately belong to Jesus.
Greet the person you don't know but reframe using the expression “Are you new here?” In many cases when a new pastorate begins inactive members return to check out the new minister. The expression can grade on nerves made sensitive by an absence. Try saying, hello my name is _________, have I met you before?
Use the pew pad. If you don't have them it's good to get them. Sign it and note the names of the people next to you for greeting purposes and pass it on down the pew.
If you know a visitor is next to you, take the opportunity to invite them to the coffee hour after worship and introduce them to several people you know. Authentic greeting and introductions communicate that we care about the visitor and helps to insure their return.
Growing a church also means growing our sensitivity to the needs of newcomers when they come. Our response to them will be the most important reason they return. Contrary to belief, it isn't necessarily the sermon or music. So this Sunday, take a moment to greet that person you don't know, you may just be giving them a reason to return!